Coping With Grief (2) - All The Word for Today Daily Devotionals for 2025

‘The LORD is close to the broken-hearted.' Psalm 34:18 NIV (2011 Edition)
ONE WOMAN said, ‘I'd no idea grieving involved so many "firsts." My first night alone, the first time I attended church alone, my first anniversary alone. And when I didn't think things could get worse, I find myself bracing for the holidays alone - I'd give anything to boycott them.' In such moments, we can stand on the promise, ‘The LORD is close to the broken-hearted'. He offers us the comfort of His presence and His Word, the support of loving friends and family, plus the passage of time to help heal us. In the meantime, there are some things you cannot do for yourself: 1) Draw on God's strength. Grief is physically and emotionally draining. So ask God to protect you from being consumed by it, and to strengthen you when you are feeling down. ‘He gives strength to the wearythose who hope in the LORDrenew their strength' (Isaiah 40:29,31 NIV 1984 Edition). 2) Have reasonable expectations about what you can handle. Don't expect too much too soon. Treat yourself like you'd treat your best friend; be kind, considerate, and nurturing. 3) Try to plan ahead. When you're grieving, there's no ‘right' or ‘wrong' way to handle special events like birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays. Some people decide to do something totally different instead of trying to maintain old traditions that reinforce their sense of loss. Do what feels best for you. 4) Allow others to help you. Going it alone usually means going nowhere; reach out to friends and loved ones. Ask them to pray with you and for you. Remember, others don't necessarily know what you need unless you tell them.

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